The motive behind this book is primarily to create a book that would grasp the attention of my brothers. I felt that I would be able to have brothers recognize who I truly am and not for who, they want me to be. I didn’t want brothers placing me in the category of “oh well, she is only good for sex or the other women”. Then came the idea of speaking out for my sisters who may have similar life experiences and are too timid to speak for themselves. I figure this book could help break some of the barriers between my brothers and sisters.